It's nice to be kind and help others, but have you ever felt like people take advantage of your kindness? Or felt tired because you're always trying to make everyone happy? It's like walking on a tightrope sometimes, especially if you're trying to live in a way that honors God. Remember, it's okay to be kind without letting others walk all over you.
Kindness Doesn't Mean Always Saying Yes
Think of kindness like sharing your favorite snack. It feels good to share, but if you give it all away, you'll be left hungry. The same goes for your time and energy. Being kind means sharing those things, but you also need to take care of yourself. It's not kind to yourself to say yes when you really mean no.
People-Pleasing Can Be Exhausting
Trying to make everyone else happy is like trying to fill up a leaky bucket. It never ends, and you'll just end up feeling drained. Plus, when you're too focused on what others think, you might lose sight of what makes you happy or what God has planned for you.
Your Worth Comes from God, Not People's Opinions
Remember, God loves you just as you are. You don't need to earn that love by bending over backwards for everyone else. Your value isn't measured by how much you do for others or by their approval. You're special because God made you, and He's the one who truly knows your worth.
Aim to Please God, Not Everyone Else
Living for God means sometimes you'll make choices that others won't understand or agree with. And that's okay. It's not about being popular; it's about being faithful. Being kind because you want to reflect God's love is different from being kind because you're scared of letting people down.
Remember, the most impactful acts of kindness are often those that come not from a desire to be liked, but from a genuine desire to do good. By anchoring your life in God’s love, you’ll find the strength to be truly kind, the wisdom to set healthy boundaries, and the joy of living a life that’s pleasing to Him, filled with peace and purpose.
It's All About Balance
Finding the right balance is key. It's like baking a cake; you need the right ingredients in the right amounts. Too much of one thing can throw everything off. So, be kind, but also be kind to yourself. Say yes when you can, but don't be afraid to say no. Your relationship with God and your well-being are what truly matter.
Remember, it's not selfish to take care of yourself; it's necessary. And in doing so, you'll find you have even more to offer others in a way that's healthy and joyful for you, too.
Article by: Micayla Niemack
